At all times, your family should come first. It is your unstated responsibility as a sibling to keep your younger siblings in mind at all times. You are their strongest ally, best friend, and guardian. But how would you react if your sister attempted to take advantage of your generosity by asking you to pay for her opulent wedding? Would you politely give in out of love for your brother, or would you stand your ground and refuse?
The sibling who is frustrated is described in the story below. The original poster (OP) started working as soon as he graduated from college, which allowed him to have a good life and stable financial status. His sister, on the other hand, never had to struggle to get what she desired. She turned down the chance to attend college and build a stable future for her family because she believed someone else would take care of all of her needs.
So, after announcing her engagement, she approached OP without hesitation for financial support. When OP declined, she lost her cool and claimed OP was not acting like a brother to her. That being said if you're curious about the exact words that were said between the siblings and whether or not OP complied with her demands, be sure to read the story that follows. Furthermore, remember to read the story of the mother-in-law who insisted her children switch babies when you're done!
